Geeta Nayar still remembers the moment her life changed forever—17 years ago, when she gave birth to her daughter in a London hospital. Today, she lives with bowel incontinence, a silent torment that reshaped her daily existence. "I thought it was just part of being a mother," Nayar said, her voice trembling as she clutched a mug of tea in her Clapham kitchen. "But it’s not. It’s something no one prepares you for."
Nayar’s story is not unique. A joint investigation by this newspaper and the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists has uncovered a hidden crisis: thousands of women across the UK are living with debilitating birth injuries that stretch beyond the delivery room, often for decades. These injuries—ranging from incontinence to pelvic organ prolapse—are rarely discussed, leaving victims to suffer in silence.
Key Points
- ✅ 1 in 3 women experience pelvic floor disorders within 10 years of childbirth
- ⚡ Birth injuries often go undiagnosed for years due to lack of awareness
- 💡 Only 30% of affected women seek medical help for symptoms
Dr. Priya Kapoor, a consultant urogynaecologist at St. Thomas’ Hospital, confirmed the scale of the problem. "We see women in their 50s and 60s who are still dealing with injuries from deliveries that happened 30 years ago," Kapoor said. "The body doesn’t just ‘bounce back.’ These injuries are permanent, and they require lifelong management." The hospital’s pelvic floor clinic has seen a 40% increase in referrals over the past five years, a trend echoed across the country.
| Injury Type | Short-Term Impact | Long-Term Consequences |
|---|---|---|
| Pelvic Organ Prolapse | Discomfort, heaviness in pelvis | Chronic pain, surgery required |
| Stress Urinary Incontinence | Leakage during coughing or exercise | Social isolation, reduced quality of life |
| Bowel Incontinence | Occasional leakage | Embarrassment, dependency on pads |
The NHS spends £120 million annually on treating birth-related pelvic floor disorders, yet prevention and early intervention remain woefully underfunded. A Freedom of Information request revealed that only 5% of maternity units in England offer routine postnatal pelvic floor assessments. "We’re failing women," said Dr. Kapoor. "If we screened every woman six weeks after delivery, we could catch these issues early and prevent years of suffering."
💡 Pro Tip
Ask your GP for a referral to a pelvic health specialist if you experience persistent pelvic pain, incontinence, or heaviness after childbirth. Early intervention can drastically improve long-term outcomes.
Campaigners are now calling for mandatory pelvic floor assessments as part of postnatal care. The Birth Trauma Association, a UK-based charity, has documented over 2,000 cases in the past year alone where women reported inadequate support after suffering birth injuries. "This isn’t just a medical issue—it’s a societal one," said Emma Holloway, the charity’s co-founder. "Women are told motherhood is a gift, but no one mentions the cost."
📋 By The Numbers
- 40% — Increase in pelvic floor clinic referrals at St. Thomas’ Hospital over five years
- £120 million — Annual NHS spending on birth-related pelvic floor disorders
- 5% — Maternity units in England offering routine postnatal pelvic floor assessments
For Geeta Nayar, the fight for recognition is personal. She has spent years advocating for better maternal health policies, even launching a support group for women with similar experiences. "We need to break the silence," she said. "No woman should have to live like this, pretending everything is fine when it’s not." Her group, *Pelvic Floor Matters*, now has over 5,000 members nationwide, a testament to the scale of unmet need.
- First — Contact your local NHS trust to ask about postnatal pelvic floor assessments.
- Second — Seek a referral to a urogynaecologist or specialist physiotherapist if symptoms persist.
- Third — Join a support group to connect with others facing similar challenges.
The tide may finally be turning. The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists has pledged to push for national guidelines on postnatal pelvic health by 2025. But for women like Nayar, time is running out. "They say it’s part of the journey—well, it shouldn’t be," she said. "Motherhood shouldn’t come at this price."

